Adoption

It was hard for me to putting my child up for adoption. I did not do it because I do not love my child. I am doing this because I know that it is the best choice for her and for me. I know I am to young to provide for her and I want her to have the best life she can. Yes, it will be sad for me to do but I know in the long run she will thank me for it, when she is older. People may think that I did this because I do not love my child but they are wrong. I do love her I just do not want her to live with the mistakes I have made.

I could not do abortion. There was no way I could. I could not harm an innocent persons life just because I choose to have sex before I was ready. Yes, I still am not ready but there are people out there that want children and cannot have them. So if you are pregnant and you do not want it please do adoption. There are many wonderful families out there that would want your child. Please do not hurt a child and please choose adoption.

3/5/10

I’m 17 years old and I’m a junior at Centennial High School. I love to read books, hang out, and watch movies. I went to church and I did not expect to get pregnant. Some girls say that it will not happen to them but if it can happen to me than it can happen to you. So, be careful. I wish I would have waited until marriage to have sex. So that I would have been with someone who would have stayed with me and not ran away. Also, that it would have been more special to be with the one that I love and want to be with the rest of my life.

I hear girls saying that they want to have babies for multiple reasons and none of them are reasonable. I hear girls say they want to get pregnant for money. When most of the fathers will not pay child support. Also, so their guys will stay with them. Girls if you think about the guys will either run away or leave you. So you would be stuck with a child with no help. Another is that they want somebody to love them. Girls you are loved no matter what. Even if you do not think that you are. Ask yourselves this question: am I really ready to take care of someone when I am a kid myself? Also, think if you can afford a child. Are you ready to raise one? Are you mentally, physically, and financially prepared for a child? I dare you to look up the price of things for a baby just for one year alone. Then think about all of it.

When it comes down to it please think before you act. Your actions do have consequences. No matter if they are good or bad but you still have to live with them.

Pregnancy

I am writing this blog to tell people about teen pregnancy. It is not as great as people think it is to be. It is tough to grow up and be a teenager with a child on the way; because you still have a lot of more years to grow up. When your pregnant though you have to grow up faster so much faster in nine months than you would have to if you were not pregnant. Many people don’t know how hard it is until it actually happens to them. It cost so much money for the appointments and for vitamins. Your also responsable for someone else’s life when you know that you are pregnant. You have to eat right, exercise, and take vitamins. Some peole get pregnant because they do not feel loved. That is not my case my family loves me and supports me very much. I am very thankful for this. I would be lost if I did not have them behind me. I love them so much. I am also thankful for my friends too. They have helped me through so much. This has been a hard situation for me and everyone. It os hard to be a junior in high school and to go through life caring a child. I want to be a normal teenager but I cannot. I will have to miss out on school for a few weeks and I will have to miss out on the ACT. I will not be able to go to prom either. I cannot do some of the same things my friends do. Sometimes I wish I could do more and I was not pregnant but I cannot change the past.

I choose to do adoption because I know I am not physically, mentally, or fiancially ready to raise a child on my own. I would have help of my family but it is not completely fair to them to have to help raise my child. I choose the adoption family that is here in town. They are really sweet people. It will be hard to do but it is the best for my daughter and I. I do love my daughter; even enough to put my self aside and do what is best for her to. I know this way I am not hurting her future and hurting mine. She is still loved by both families.

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